I cry easily.
Just a touching moment between the reunion of a US army father who has not see his daughter for 3 years.
(Even just thinking about it makes me want to cry)
Or a dog that stood by a dead dog in the middle of the road after the dead dog has saved it's lives.
Or a confession of a boy and a girl to reject each other's love because they will be facing a long distance relationships.
There are many touching moments we know.
Yet there are also depressing moments that we wish we do not need to face.
A death of someone close to you.
An illness falls on your beloved pet.
You lost the chance to talk to someone forever.
Seriously, the moment I hear these kinds of stories, I can cried non-stop.
and its not just a tear or two drops on my cheeks.
My tears will fall non-stop and with my breath keeps on choking and nose keeps being runny.
For me, I just feel like "I feel the sadness" even though I've not go through it before. (**touch-wood!!!**)
I cry it may not just represent sympathy or represent it at all.
I cry to show that I want to share your sadness and crying means "I cry with you.".
It's so complicated to explain.
But conclusion, don't judge a person for crying so easily.
It may be because they've gone through what you are trying to overcome OR they've gone through something even WORSE and they trying their best to hold their tears to tell you "It's not that bad compared with mine" but they do not know how to explain to you in that moment of situation so... they just cry.
Or maybe some cry because they are happy. Yes, it's also known as "Happy Tears".
They love what you're having now and they're overjoyed that you finally found it because deep down in their heart, they know you deserve that happy moment and now, you've finally got it.
For me, everyone deserve their happy moment. You may think it's easy for them to get it what you see was the joy they had recorded in just 10 mins of video. None of us would know how hard they've overcome all the obstacles to just finally taste the fruit of their success.
I know it's hard because nothing comes easy in this world. You have to earn it.
that's why I'm happy for them. Touch for them. Cry for them.
Hypocrite you may call me.
I don't care and I just love crying.
I've hidden too much sadness and pressurize all of my negative feelings without showing them out because I just though tears don't deserve to roll down on my cheeks, especially for certain people or situation.
but after some incident, I find that crying just kinda... relieve me.
After crying, I can feel my lungs or chest or heart are light and empty.
Feels really great.
Ever since then, tears need not to be kept. Roll it out like it's unwanted.
It really does not have any use except to moist our eyes I guess.
SO why not let it out then?! It can clean our eyes from the polluted air too. ;)
Anyway, some may thing it's creepy to cry. So look at the surroundings 1st before crying. You don't want to creep children out. They might think something bad has happen and cry with you when actually you were falling a happy tears. Sweat.
So, do cry. Boys or girls. =)
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